
Like so many people, I have felt deeply shaken by the events at Bondi. Even if you were nowhere near the scene, shocking events like this can cut through our sense of safety and leave us feeling unsettled, emotional, or simply not safe.
Personally I wanted to do something to help but it was difficult to know what to do. Was there a useful charity for donations ? Should I be advocating on the issue but what could I do when so many have tried to find solutions for the religious terrorism that was displayed this week.
It’s important to acknowledge that what many of us are feeling right now is a very normal response to an abnormal and distressing event. Shock, grief, fear, sadness, anxiety, tearfulness, anger or even numbness can all show up in the days and weeks following something like this.
There is no “right” way to respond. What matters is finding supportive ways to help your nervous system settle and to allow emotions to move through rather than becoming stuck.
Gentle Strategies to Support Yourself
Limit exposure to distressing media
While staying informed is understandable, repeated exposure to graphic or emotional coverage can keep your nervous system in a heightened state of alert. Consider checking the news once or twice a day rather than scrolling continuously.
Ground your body
Simple grounding practices such as walking barefoot on grass or sand, slow deep breathing, stretching, or holding something warm like a cup of tea can help bring your body out of fight-or-flight mode.
Reduce stimulants
At times of stress, caffeine can amplify anxiety and jitteriness. Swapping coffee for something more calming such as chamomile or peppermint tea can be surprisingly helpful in settling frayed nerves.
Connect with others
Talking about how you’re feeling with a trusted friend can be incredibly healing. This week I’ve had several conversations with people about how they felt after what happened, and many were surprised by how moved they were by the compassion and solidarity shown across social media and the wider community.
If talking feels difficult, writing can be a powerful alternative. Putting your thoughts and feelings on paper often helps release emotions that feel stuck or overwhelming.

Homeopathic Support for Shock and Emotional Distress
Homeopathic remedies can be a gentle option for supporting emotional wellbeing during times of shock and grief. As always, individual responses vary, and remedies are chosen based on how you are experiencing things.
Aconite
One of the first remedies to consider after a shock. A helpful way to think about Aconite is the “shock of the shock” — like replaying the impact of a car accident over and over in your mind.
Aconite may be helpful when symptoms are sudden and intense following a traumatic event such as an accident or disaster. You may feel:
- Agitated or restless
- Fearful or panicky
- A pounding heart
- Dry skin and mouth, with thirst
Aconite can also support ongoing anxiety linked to a recent or past traumatic experience, especially when the fear feels immediate and overwhelming.
Arsenicum album
This remedy is often helpful when anxiety centres around safety, security and what might happen in the future. There may be excessive worrying about health, finances, or loved ones.
People who resonate with Arsenicum often:
- Feel better with company but may become controlling
- Are very neat, tidy or perfectionistic
- Feel chilly and prefer warmth
Ignatia
Ignatia can be supportive when grief feels raw and emotional expression is strong. It is commonly considered when:
- You feel very teary or can’t stop crying
- You lose your appetite when upset
- There’s a sensation of a lump in the throat
Bach Rescue Remedy
A beautifully gentle option for acute stress and emotional overwhelm. One of the advantages of Rescue Remedy is that it can be taken frequently. While the standard dose is four drops, four times a day, during periods of significant stress it can be used more often if needed.
Be Kind to Yourself
Events like this can shake our sense of safety and remind us of how vulnerable we all are. If you’re feeling “off”, emotional, or unsettled, it doesn’t mean you’re not coping — it means you’re human.
Give yourself permission to slow down, reach out, and seek support if you need it. If feelings of anxiety, distress or grief persist or begin to interfere with daily life, professional support can be incredibly valuable.
We heal not by pushing emotions away, but by allowing them to be seen, felt, and gently supported.
If you need personalised support or just want to catchup for a cup of tea, please don’t hesitate to reach out.








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